"If you could kick the person in the pants responsible for most of your trouble, you wouldn't sit for a month."- Theodore Roosevelt
One of the pathways for recovery is taking responsibility. Taking resonsibility is one of the tougher things to deal with but very necessary if we are going to make real progress in our life. Recovery takes effort and work.
These are some practical realizations and steps that I have written down as I think about ways of taking greater responsibility for my own life that I thought I would share:
- Stop trying to rationalize and escape the tough things of your life
- Realize that the person you give responsibility to, you also give power
- Start slaying the dragons in your own life and not the dragons in another's life
- Take a deep breath, focus on your life & the task of becoming responsible
- Realize if we don't know where we're going-we'll end up where we don't want to be
- Write out the life that you want...then name and claim it.
- Get clear and daily say to yourself-"I am responsible."
- Pause and allow yourself to feel yourself becoming and being responsible.
- Give yourself permission to live the life that you want to live.
- Behave your way to success and the results you want to see happen.
- Realize that you may need to learn new skills in order to take action.
- Set up mini-goals toward greater goals that you want to achieve.
- Set up reasonable time-limits-"I will work on this for 15 to 20 minutes"
- Remember there is always something at stake in whether we are responsible or not.
- Learn the system of emotional self-help that works for you and daily use it.
"Better by far to be good and courageous and bold and to make a difference. Not change the world exactly, but the bit around you."- David Nichols
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