I just wanted to begin by sharing that this has been an amazing journey for me in being able to hear the stories of so many beautiful recovery champions. The simple act of sharing one's story has a profound impact on all of those who really take time to listen and see themselves within each person's story and....by that find immense hope.
I found that in Paulette Martinez's story. Her response to me when I asked her to share was so simple and heart-felt. "I would love to participate...whatever I can do to help." I hope her story helps so many of the new recruits in NC...the new peers who are working hard and waiting for gainful employment.
Listen to Paulette as she shares....
"Each day, I begin with the realization and appreciation that I have been granted another day to make a positive impact on someone's life. That's huge for me. I am coming from a place that I once felt forsaken at the dawn of another day.."
Q: How do you define success?
"My definition of success would be achieving prosperity and allowing it to overflow to others. Success is abstract and how I define it constantly evolves."
"When I began my recovery journey, it meant finding the courage to face the day. Today, it means living my life with integrity and making a conscious decision to continue even when faced with failure."
"When I need encouragement, I remind myself where I was 10 years ago: "I was standing on the corner and looking to feed my addiction." This puts everything in perspective and inspires me to go further."
"The best part of my success has yet to be determined."
Q: What is a typical day and week like for you?
"Each day, I begin with the realization and appreciation that I have been granted another day to make a positive impact on someone's life. That's huge for me. I am coming from a place that I once felt forsaken at the dawn of another day."
"Then, I offer myself positive affirmations..." I am worthy of this life. I have value. I can do this." Through self-reflection, I gain peace and enlightenment."
"In addition, I journal, garden and occasionally exercise. Some days, I like to go to the library or the thrift store. I am currently seeking employment as a Certified Peer Support Specialist (but as for now I volunteer). I do whatever it takes to keep my name out there and relevant."
Q: What's your advice for those entering the field?
"Be honest. Have integrity. Share your story. Someone will be able to identify with it. Using your voice, can give another the courage to persevere through traumatic circumstances. If you are looking for employment don't give up or give in easily."
Q: What wellness tools do you use in your own life?
"I maintain my WRAP (Wellness Recovery Action Plan). I remain conscious of how I am feeling and what I can do to maintain my wellness."
"I approach each day with a sense of purpose. Sometimes it helps to write these things down. If I am bored, I will text a compliment to someone. A random text saying "you're awesome" can make someone's day in turn making you feel better about yourself."
Q: What have been your most rewarding experiences?
"My peer support training was so empowering it left me wanting more. I met wonderful recovery-oriented people who I turn to for support and encouragement. I look forward to actual hands-on experience."
Q: What motivates and inspires you to "keep at it"?
"My inspiration would be the promise of tomorrow and knowing that my value is yet to be determined. My motivation would be to bring awareness and reduce the stigma associated with mental health and substance use."
Q: What are your recommendations towards professional development?
NETWORK!!! Someone once told me "suit up and show up".
""My inspiration would be the promise of tomorrow and knowing that my value is yet to be determined. My motivation would be to bring awareness and reduce the stigma associated with mental health and substance use."
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